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REDEFINING RELATIONSHIP

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In a world where heartbreak, betrayal, youth disillusionment, family disintegration and divorce is on a daily increase, it is necessary to return back to the standard and redefine basic relationship concepts. Standard will always remain the same no matter the technological advancements in the world. Even when popular celebrities try to redefine relationship by laying out the wrong example, we must always remember that truth cannot be modified or modernized. These basic relationship concept will help us to redefine our relationship, and if we adhere to them, would usher is into a season of healthy and successful relationship. If we break any stage, it affects our relationship. So, what are these relationship concepts? They include: 1. FRIENDSHIP Friendship is a type of relationship between two people who care about each other. Friends are an important part of most people's lives. Research has recently shown that having friends increases our chances of being happy. A good friend migh...

QUESTION: "Why is it that A man with the finest woman in his life, but Jobless will never be happy. And a woman with the finest Job, but without a man in her life will never be happy?"

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QUESTION: "Why is it that A man with the finest woman in his life, but Jobless will never be happy. And a woman with the finest Job, but without a man in her life will never be happy?" Short Answer: A man's first love is not a woman. A man's first love is his work (Making money). On the other hand, a woman's first love is in her relationship with a man. Long Answer:  What gives a man primary fulfilment in life, aside his maker, is his work. That is how God designed the man & it's a Divine law. God first  gave Adam work before he gave him a wife.  Meaning, his number one source of Joy in life is tied to his work & making money, and not his woman. Advice To Women: Never date or marry a Jobless Man. You will regret it. There are 7 things God gave man and the least of them is the woman. Until a man has the other 6, don't marry him. A woman on the other hand, has her first Joy & fulfilment in her relationship with the man in her life. Her world revo...

THE POWER OF MENTORSHIP

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Most times some of us take for granted what having an INFLUENCER, MENTOR, COACH can do to/for us. These set of persons are often times called ROLE MODELS: People we epitomizes after; People that shorten and reduce our life's struggles for us; People that have already blazed the part we want to thread; People who's advice even if given in a jovial mood should not be taken lightly because it can change the course of our life forever. Below is an illustration of this using Ronaldo de Lima  and Neymar JR. Twenty years ago in the summer of 1997, when Ronaldo was signed from Barcelona to Inter Milan for a then world record fee of $27 million (£20 million), making him the most expensive player and the second player, after Diego Maradona, to break the world transfer record twice, a young admirer joined him to snap a selfie. That young admirer was Neymar JR and that was the beginning of a dream. Twenty years later, the young boy with him, Neymar is today the most expensive player, ten t...